³ He must not drink too much wine or ·like to fight [be violent/a troublemaker], but rather be gentle and ·peaceable [not quarrelsome/contentious], not ·loving money [avaricious; greedy]. ⁴ He must ·be a good family leader [^Lmanage/lead his own household well], having children ·who cooperate with full respect [who obey and respect him; or whom he controls with dignity]. ⁵ (If someone does not know how to ·lead [manage] his own ·family [household], how can that person take care of God’s church?)